How to make your life easier .. 5 facts you should be aware of
It is no secret to anyone that self-understanding and self-understanding play an important role in determining the extent of personal happiness. All people suffer a fair degree from convictions they gained from previous experiences and the inhibitions they deal with daily, which make their lives less easy than we expect.
In this article, we will review a set of skills that must be understood in order for life to be easier:
1. People don't care as much as you think.
This truth may seem a little harsh at first, but it is fundamentally inevitable and very comfortable if you realize it correctly.
So we are confined to the corner of others' expectations and do everything we do only in response to the question of what so-and-so thinks about me, and what does Allan expect from me, because this is the very hell, and this behavior will return to us with systematic psychological devastation because they all do not fully care about our lives, and if this thing happens, it will not be Except for broad lines that we all share.
2. We are constantly changing.
You must have experienced this feeling well at some point, which is that your past self is different from your present self, and it will definitely differ from the future according to the different data you deal with, the surrounding circumstances around you and your experiences that are not separated from you, which will finally make your mind.
3. The comparison doesn't help.
In the presence of the dense social media, especially since most of them have become an integral part of the lives of many, which in turn stimulates them unconsciously to share the most beautiful moments of their condition and their travels, which may illusively and untrue portray that the whole life is going this way with them, and that their lives are immersed in bliss while Your life is fraught with obstacles, and you begin an unwanted comparison of life and realities that are not ideal except on virtual reality only.
4. Your advice and the juice of your experiences will not always be heard, so do not be disheartened.
Perhaps you may find your dear friend in a real dilemma and you know exactly what he needs to do to get out of this dilemma with the least losses, but you shout to those who are shouting while you are trying in vain to advise him what he should do in vain.
5. Remember that you can only control your reaction.
You will not be able to control all the negative situations and events that you face on a daily basis, but you can control your reaction, and try to take yourself for a few seconds outside this provocative situation before you issue any reaction that may upset you with its consequences. Become bigger while you need it all.
